Wednesday, October 17, 2012
The next Berg novel I picked up was Durable Goods, about a young adolescent army brat who lives with her older sister and their widowed father. I loved this one, too.
Soon after, I went searching for more Berg titles. Lucky me when I discovered Durable Goods was the first of a trilogy (it would have been just a teeny bit ruined if I had started with the second or third in the series). Joy School and True to Form are the two sequels. I soaked up these two as well.
In doing my clinical work I occasionally encounter clients whose mothers died when they were young. It's one of the toughest losses to address. For the client, of course, yes. And for me on a personal level. Not because I lost my mother, thankfully. But just the mere act of contemplating what a loss of this magnitude means.
I've had a couple recent medical scares (barely) where I several times laid in bed at night thinking about what it would be like for my kids if something were to happen to me. It was blinding. I couldn't hold the thought. I had brief images of sitting in my bed making a video recording of all the things I think my kids, especially my daughters, need to hear from me when they're old enough to hear it (saw this on television somewhere). My chest would collapse under the weight and my mind would immediately change the subject.
But back to the books. Right now I'm looking for other novels where the heroine of the story has lost her mother. Where we see elements daughters processing what it means to grow up without a mother. Jane Eyre immediately comes to mind but other than the opening chapters we don't hear much in the way of how Jane feels the loss of her mother, per se. Or am I forgetting?
Any book suggestions, readers?
Saturday, October 06, 2012
*Arceneaux (ar-sen-oh) *Cormier (cor-mee-hay) *Babineaux (bab-in-oh)
*Hebert (Hay-Bear minus the "H") *Prejean (pray-zhawh) *Richard (ree-shard)*Broussard (broo-sard) *DuPuy (dew-Pwee) *LeBlanc (luh-blonh)
*Sonnier (Son-ee-yay) *Theriot (teh-ree-oh)
Which is to say, I come from a long line of cajun gumbolatiers. And I was privileged to learn by the side of a few of them.
So a few weeks ago, as I sat in my doctor's office waiting for my annual poking, prodding, squeezing and flattening and read an article in the Smithsonian, Toward a Unified Theory of Gumbo, written by By Lolis Eric Elie, a man from south Louisiana, you could say I was in hog cracklin' heaven.* Feel free to read the online version, Best.gumbo.ever.
These nearly thirty years of living in Texas I have tasted many bowls of gumbo, enjoyed with great pleasure many bowls of gumbo, that tasted little of what I grew up knowing as gumbo. No bell pepper, no celery, no parsley and only the minimum of onion. Tasted like a wonderful chicken soup with a roux base. But not the rich, colorful, spicy gumbo of my childhood.
So when I read the following words I felt a flood of cajun recognition,
My mother’s gumbo is made with okra, shrimp, crabs and several kinds of sausage (the onions, garlic, bell pepper, celery, parsley, green onions and bay leaf go without saying).
It goes without saying. Can I have a witness?
And even more vindicated goodness was to come:
My elders acknowledged the existence of two types of gumbo: okra and filé. Filé, the ground sassafras leaves that the Choctaw contributed to the state’s cuisine, thickened and flavored gumbo. By the time I came along, okra could be bought frozen year-round. So if you really wanted to make an okra gumbo in the dead of winter, you could. But in my parents’ day, filé gumbo was wintertime gumbo, made when okra was out of season.
This fact may explain why I've been served a plate of Texas gumbo that contained nothing but okra.
Huh? I sat eating, scratching my head. Figuratively. I was at the table, afterall.
I recall, many years ago, promising an Austin friend that I would bring dinner, a pot of gumbo, to feed a crowd at a football watching party. When I arrived with my large pot and rice cooker in tow I was confused and a little hurt to see that he had laid out an array of barbeque chicken, pork chops and sausage. And potato salad. Enough to feed a small army.
He later admitted, sheepishly, that he thought it was strange when I offered to feed everyone from a huge pot of cooked okra. This from a native Texan!
He also admitted that he loved my gumbo. As did everyone else given the trays of leftover barbeque.
So a big thank you to Mr. Elie for trying to set the world straight. And to his momma, Mrs. Elie, for cooking her son such a fabulous looking gumbo. That crab and shrimp looks to.die.for, just like the gumbo my uncle used to cook up on his backyard gas cooker.
But the biggest thank you I reserve for Mr. Elie, for allowing me to feel safe in the knowledge that the gumbo I serve is, too, the best.gumbo.ever.
*If you have never tasted cracklins, the Cajun version of chitlins, a sort of a cross between pork rinds and deep-fried, thick slab bacon, don't do so at four o'clock in the afternoon, on an empty stomach after you have spent all morning and afternoon eating absolutely nothing, that is to say, drinking high octane Community Coffee and inhaling second hand, chain smoked cigarettes because your cajun hosts are too thrilled to have you as a visitor to even think to offer you any food until you are so plum stupid as to mention you've never tasted cracklin. You might just try some and swear you'll never eat cracklin' again.
Twenty years later? I've kept my word.